My Opinion

Friends to Keep, Friends to Avoid

By brokencode ⋅ September 28, 2007 ⋅  Email This Post ⋅  Print This Post ⋅ Post a comment

Aku gak terlalu pedulikan with whom I should keep a friend relationship. Aku bukan seorang pedendam, Aku seorang yang pemaaf, Aku seorang yang gak suka lirik punggungmu, Aku seorang kapiten, mempunyai ‘pedang’ panjang :lol: .

Maksud entry ini ?

• Lagi males …
• Kerjaan numpuk banget, gak tau mau kerjaan yang manah dulu.
• Money burns
• Main ping-pong ama Dexno :oops:
• under the influence of alcohol. Belum ilang :shock:
• Bingung ama temen-temen gue. Jadi pengen nyanyi; I said that k :mrgreen: l *tutz

Dapet baca dan lumayan menyentuh. Nih gue kopas (biar dapet konten :P ) :

Find out what a great Buddhist teacher and master has to say about the kinds of friends to cultivate, and the ones to avoid. What kind of friend are you? What kinds of friends do you have?

Good friends can help us discover our capacity for connection. Get some wise guidance about the true nature of healthy friendship here–and then pass it along to your friends.

Kinds of Friends to Cultivate

1. Friends that help us tell right from wrong. They let us know when our conduct is admirable and are not afraid to tell us when we behave poorly. Such friends help us to stay on the right path.

2. Friends that are compassionate and caring. They give us moral support during our trying times. They are also happy for us when we are doing well.

3. Friends that are always ready to extend a helping hand. They are pillars of strength. They help us stay focused and come to our aid when we are lost.

4. Friends that share our aspirations. Such friends provide us with encouragement and are not hesitant to share their time and resources.

Kinds of Friends to Avoid

1. Friends that never show their true intentions. These people are not trustworthy or sincere and take advantage of others with no remorse.

2. Friends that are envious of others’ good fortune and success. They constantly wallow in bitterness and resentment.

3. Friends that have hearts of stone. They only think about themselves and fail to see or care about others’ predicaments.

4. Friends that do not acknowledge their own mistakes. They are quick to place blame on others, instead of being willing to learn and grow from their own foolish conduct.

5. Friends that refuse to accept advice from others. Their minds are closed and their character is arrogant.

Although we should still show kindness and compassion to all of these people, it is not wise to keep their company. Friendships should be based on mutual affinity, not one-sided effort. Real friendships are an actual and resounding expression of true joy.

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Inget kata : ‘Frum Ririn’ jadi ngakak abis

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